Friday, March 22, 2013

"My Mom LIkes to Sew"


My oldest (M) wrote this little composition last year. I was happy for many reasons; his writing is getting better, he chose me to write about (you had to choose a family member) and he focused on my sewing. The last part, well...it warmed my heart. 

One of the most difficult decisions I had to make when my kids got diagnosed with autism was to quit my job and stay home with them. Working from home can be quite isolating and it is still something I struggle with. This is part of the reason I started this blog, an attempt at community and a desire to want to be seen.  

When my oldest came home with this essay it felt like he was saying "I see you, I see you sewing, and I know you like it, and I know it's your job, and you are contributing to our family."  One of the issues some kids on the autism spectrum have is their inability to see outside their world. M would spend long stretches of time, by himself, lining up cars and playing with strings. He still will talk to you, hours on end, about sports, not caring whether you are interested or not. The fact that he now comes home, asks me about my day, what I sewed, who I printed on what t-shirt, well, it's just so amazing for me to see. He has come such a long way. 

Peek a boo, I see you. I played this with M all the time when he was younger. Well, guess what. He now sees me too. 

8 comments:

  1. This touched my heart. What a beautiful essay he wrote, and what a beautiful story about how far he has come! Very heart warming. And while I'm on the subject of beautiful...your sewing is beautiful also :-)!

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  2. Beautiful, witty, eloquent and well written. Love this blog. Wish I could express myself so accurately and clearly.

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    1. Aww, thank you Tash, I just saw this. This means so much coming from you! <3

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  3. How heartwarming! Such a beautiful essay (your son's and yours).

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    1. Thank you Theresa! catching up on comments here, I always appreciate your encouragement!

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  4. I realize this post is older but I just wanted to say I loved it. My brother is autistic as well. Once he was enrolled in a school that had a real program that actually helped them, we noticed these exact changes! I absolutely love this post

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    1. Jessica, thank you so much for sharing about your brother and for your encouragement! means so much.

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